Thursday, June 17, 2010

To those who wait


Thanks Angie, for showing this to me. It's so perfect. And I know that we all go through our ups and down. And this last month things have been getting so good I'm almost expecting something bad. So I'll just enjoy these wonderful things right now. I FEEL as though it's been a long time coming. That these good tidings took a little while. But I know we have been blessed faster than so many, especially in this economy!

Derek received a promotion after being with Marriott just 5 months! He got lucky in some ways, this position just happened to open, and it wasn't expected at all! The interview process took a whole month before he found out he got the position. He is now a Sales Manager for Residence Inn & Courtyard Marriott. This did come with a pay increase & that has taken a huge load off our shoulders!



We are moving! Not too far from where we are now, still the same town, but we are moving to a duplex that's about the same size (a little smaller) but it has a yard, A/C, a MUCH lower utility bill, and $155 less a month! So we had to do it! It won't be the MOST fun packing and unpacking... again! But in the long run it's well worth it! Now you get to see more pictures of our new place. hahahaha LUCKY YOU


Derek got a car of his own! (he prob won't like me showing you this, but I'm proud of him!) Evidence that patience while looking gets you a STEAL OF A DEAL. We have been sharing and it has left me at home a lot. Since it was winter weather and cold it was ok but it's so nice to have my own wheels to go to visit friends, family and Jocelyn & I can go to some fun activities. We went to the Aquarium with Liz recently and it was SO MUCH FUN! JoJo loved it! She was in shock for the first half! So we will be going back there soon!








SO MUCH FUN! We love animals!


I'm not too sure how to phrase this, but I had a unique challenge presented to me... a very kind relative offered me a nice amount of money for a new wardrobe if I could get within 20lbs of my wedding weight by June 1st. Seeing as how after Jocelyn was born I kept all the pregnancy weight on, I was 65lbs over my wedding weight! And after feeling defeated at times, I SOMEHOW MANAGED TO DO IT! I have lost 45lbs! I still have 20 to get where I ought to be, but I have, after almost 2 years, got all my "baby weight" off. It's a big deal. If you haven't had a lot of weight to lose you just don't understand the constant struggle and emotional roller coaster we ride. So to any of you that have some lbs you want to lose, don't give up! If I can do it, you can do it! I've learned a lot through this, about myself and I'm grateful to the many people who helped me get moving! And taught me how to monitor what I am eating. THANK YOU! And THANK YOU to that special relative that was so kind to challenge me. Most of all I'm grateful to have some confidence back. Confidence in my appearance but more importantly knowing that I can do something that seemed impossible.

< this is my inspiration >

More good news, in 2 days my parents will be here! They are coming to celebrate Jocelyn's 2nd birthday! She is so excited to have them here! But I think they are more excited... it's nice to be a little closer than Hawaii! Not such an expensive trip! We are having a SPLiSH SPLASH FiSH party at my Grandparent's house. It's been fun to plan and shop for party decor, THANKS SOPHiE! I can't believe how Jocelyn is getting to be a little girl. She's not a baby anymore. So I guess I'll have to satisfy that itch asap! :D

Good things come to those who wait. I may not have waited as long as some of you for some successes in life, but Elder Holland is right, "Don't you quit! You keep walking. You keep trying. There is help and happiness ahead. Some blessings come soon, some come late, and some don't come til heaven.... but they come. It will be all right in the end!"

...believe in good things to come...

11 comments:

Erin said...

look at you go! isn't it funny how we worry that things are going to good, and wait for the bad to come! glad you are enjoying the good. congrats on the weight loss! I want to see some pics of your hot body ;)
hopefully we can hang out when B and I come to utah in a few weeks?!

Becca said...

wow, this was such a happy and uplifting post! I'm so happy for you guys! You deserve it all! And might I add once again you have always been beautiful but you are looking extra fine these days=)

Susan said...

Congrats on everything!! I love all of the happiness in this post! And that is incredible that you were able to lose so much weight - you are awesome Hillary!! We miss you guys!

stef j. said...

YOU GO GIRL!!!!! i'm seriously sososo happy for you!! i'm still battling the bulge from my two little adorable humans. so i totally know the struggle, embarrassment, failure, etc. etc. etc. you're inspiring!

and congrats to derek!!! and his new car! the one car thing can be a bummer...

i'm excited for y'all!!

SABigler said...

love your post and all the updates. it is so true good things come with time, it is hard sometimes to wait, but it is always worth it.

I TOTALLY NOTICED YOUR WEIGHT LOSS, AND YOU LOOK AWESOME! i wanted to say something at dinner but i wasn't sure. you go girl, i'm so proud of you for doing all that work to lose weight. i need some of your motivation. again, so fun seeing you guys!!! miss ya

H+B Jackson said...

I love you so much! I am so glad I know you and have had you as an inspiration in my life! I love you just doesn't say it all!

Miss you! Hope to see you soon!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations on the promotion! The New car!! Exciting! And your self control and determination to lose the weight! I've been having a hard time with that to... I hate seeing pics of me before the wedding! Ahh...someday! Good luck with the party and we'll see ya there!!!

Cody and Kylie said...

WOW! Sounds like there is a lot to congratulate you guys for. You are awesome, and I am glad so many good things are happening for you guys.

jacquirae said...

Congratulations on meeting your goal! That's awesome. I'm glad to see that your family is doing great. Have fun:)

Anonymous said...

The party was fun and you did just a good job making it look soo cute! We would love to get together too. Josh usually works at least one of his jobs everyday (poor guy) But maybe you guys can come up for dinner and a swim or something. I'll talk to Josh and see what his schedule is looking like. What are your guys' plans for the 4th?

Stopher and Nicolle said...

thanks for the post...i needed it! i haven't updated you, but i got bad news...we'll talk later. patience is a virtue, right!? i'm sooo happy for you guys! love you and hope to talk soon!